Talk about an unhappy birthday!

It seems like Dean McDermott won’t be having a day to remember because according to new reports, he and wife Tori Spelling are thisclose to being dunzo.

The couple has been married for eight years, but during that time they have been plagued with problems like Dean’s addictions and cheating ways, as well as their financial woes, and Tori’s health issues.

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So, “They are barely on speaking terms,” according to a source.

Another insider gave a more detailed description of what the couple’s relationship looks like right now, saying:

“Dean has physically been there for Tori at the hospital out of a sense of obligation and it was obvious and very depressing to Tori. His thoughts were elsewhere while he was at the hospital and he was not attentive to her. He looked for every excuse to leave and pretty much stayed there as minimally as possible. He didn’t spend the night there with her at all. Tori was forced to sleep alone while Dean went home to their cozy house.”

To be fair, they have kids, so maybe he wanted to be home for them?

But we’re sure whatever issues these two have run deeper than even their closest friends know. Hopefully they work it out!

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